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Gretchen Jane Farnum

Female 1954 - 2020  (65 years)

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  • Name Gretchen Jane Farnum 
    Birth 31 Jul 1954  Jamestown, Chautauqua County, New York Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Gender Female 
    Death 28 Feb 2020  Rochester, Monroe County, New York Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Burial White Haven Memorial Park, Pittsford, Monroe County, New York Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Notes 
    • Gretchen J. Lane

      Rochester - Gretchen died early in the morning on Friday, February 28, surrounded by family. She is survived by her husband of more than 40 years, Stephen; her children, Dana (Fabrice) Veron, Emily (Jason) Ross, and Jeremy (Mia Breitkopf) Lane; her siblings, Susan (Steve) Oris, Christopher (Mary Jo Brach) Farnum, and Timothy (Christine) Farnum; and seven grandchildren, Jacob, Camille, Thomas, Noah, Jesse, Robin, and Willa.

      Gretchen was born in Jamestown but spent most of her youth in Fairport. As a teenager, she joined the Episcopal Youth Council in Rochester where she forged many of her deepest friendships. After raising her children to school age, she went to college as an adult, earning a master's degree and becoming a science teacher. She enjoyed many years teaching at Monroe #1 BOCES.

      In 2008, Gretchen moved to Portland, ME where Stephen became the Bishop of the Episcopal Diocese of Maine. There she continued to make important connections with people from all walks of life and her life's work became one of ministry. Maine and Portland became her second home. She returned to Rochester this past summer to be closer to her grandchildren. Gretchen loved music and took great joy in singing in her church choirs, both in Rochester and in Portland.

      A Memorial Service for Gretchen will be held Saturday, March 21, 11 AM, at St. Thomas Episcopal Church, 2000 Highland Ave., where a reception will follow. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to Center for Wisdom's Women, PO Box 1016, Lewiston, ME 04243-1016 (please indicate in memo portion of the check for Sophia's House) which supports and empowers women survivors of addiction, trafficking, and incarceration. Gretchen was an early supporter of this important organization. To share a memory of Gretchen or send a condolence to the family visit www.crawfordfuneralhome.com.
    Person ID I52630  OurNorthernRoots
    Last Modified 6 Feb 2025 

    Father Captain Bernard Lester Farnum,   b. 04 Jan 1921, Angelica, Allegany County, New York Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 5 Nov 2002, Fairport, Monroe County, New York Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 81 years) 
    Mother Janet Elizabeth Barker, PhD,   b. 28 Dec 1927, Buffalo, Erie County, New York Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 12 Sep 2002, Fairport, Monroe County, New York Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 74 years) 
    Marriage 08 Nov 1946  Angelica, Allegany County, New York Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Family ID F3560  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family Stephen Lane 
    Children 
     1. Dana Lane
     2. Emily Lane
     3. Jeremy Lane
    Family ID F19186  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 6 Feb 2025 

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    Link to Google MapsBirth - 31 Jul 1954 - Jamestown, Chautauqua County, New York Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDeath - 28 Feb 2020 - Rochester, Monroe County, New York Link to Google Earth
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